Its not so much as having the strength or being strong in face of adversities...Sometimes I think, in some situation, its more of being determined to not fail, to not being defeated, in which takes us to the probability of its just stubborness or tenaciousness. Of wanting to hold on to the idea that they're right and that they will never let anything, anything to change their mind..thats why they stood their ground..a strong person.
or maybe its just stupidity. Too stupid to sometimes see that you're fighting a losing battle, or that there's something that you can do to change the situation, to make tough decision to free yourself from the pain.
Or maybe its just acceptance. You accept your situation, instead of fighting it. People that fight their problems always see-saw between rage, self-pity woe-is-me mode, disappointment and sadness...but the person that stood silent and calm is usually the one that will be considered strong.
(heyy....still here? I thought you ran away...)
CONCLUSION : I'm not that strong
